Beginning Deity Work: Respect, Research and Patience

The bronze cat on my ritual table is often mistaken for a simple ornament. For many people, though, a cat statue calls to mind Bastet, the Egyptian goddess of home, protection and cats. Deity work, meaning building a relationship with a god or goddess, is a deep part of many witches’ practice. It is also one of the areas where I most encourage beginners to slow down.

Start with research, not ritual

Every deity belongs to a culture, a history and often a living faith. Before you call on one, learn about them: their myths, what they were honoured for, what offerings were traditional and whether their religion is still practised today. Read more than one source, and favour books by historians and by members of that tradition.

Notice who you are drawn to

Many people describe being “called” by a deity. They keep encountering their symbols or animals, or feel a pull while reading about them. Others choose a deity whose qualities they want to grow, such as wisdom, courage or protection. Both are valid. There is no rush.

A first, simple offering

1. Set aside a small space with an image or symbol of the deity.
2. Light a candle and introduce yourself, out loud and simply.
3. Offer something traditional and modest: water, bread, flowers or incense.
4. Say why you’d like to know them. Then sit quietly for a few minutes.
5. Remove perishable offerings the next day, respectfully.

Things to keep in mind

• A relationship takes time. Weekly small offerings mean more than one big ceremony.
• You don’t owe any deity your safety, money or wellbeing. Healthy practice should feel steadying.
• It is fine to step back, with thanks, if a relationship doesn’t feel right.

If you are looking for wisdom, direction or courage for a new path, my wisdom rituals and courage and inner strength work are a good place to begin.