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Commitment and Obsession Spells: What to Expect Afterwards

By Wren, the witch behind every WitchWhisper ritual · November 13, 2026

Some of the most-asked-about spells in my shop are the ones for commitment and desire: loyalty, proposals, "eyes only for me", obsession and seduction. They sound similar, but they ask for very different things. Here is how they differ, what people tend to notice afterwards, and how to choose.

What is the difference between commitment and obsession spells?

Spell	What it works on	Best when
Loyalty & Commitment	Trust, devotion, choosing each other	The relationship is good but undefined or wobbling
Marriage & Proposal	The step toward a shared future	You have talked about the future and it keeps stalling
Desire & Seduction	Attraction, attention, chemistry	The spark has faded, or you want to be noticed
Communication	Honest, open conversation	You cannot talk about where things are going

What do people notice first?

Usually warmth before commitment. More messages, more attention, a softer tone, plans being made. Those are the early signs of movement. A commitment step, a label, moving in, a proposal, involves a real decision, so it comes later if it comes. Watch for the small steps that lead there.

Why do some people feel more anxious after a commitment spell?

Because they start watching every message for proof. That is the waiting talking, not the spell. Write down your original wish, note real events, and look at them at a set point, like the end of the month. My guide on how to tell if a spell is working shows how.

Is an obsession spell a good idea?

The name sounds intense, and what people want from it is usually simpler: to be wanted and noticed by someone they care about. A desire and seduction spell works on attraction and chemistry. If what you want is a partner who stays, pair it with commitment work or choose commitment work instead. Attention without commitment is exciting for a while and frustrating after that.

How do I cast commitment work?

For commitment I use a pink or red candle dressed with oil and a pinch of rose, rose quartz beside the packet, and your intention copied by hand and sealed with wax. For desire work the candle is red, dressed with cinnamon oil, with a red ribbon tied loosely around the packet and garnet or carnelian. You receive photographs of the table and a written report.

How do I word my wish?

Write the relationship you want, not just the moment you want. Compare these:

"Make him propose." A single moment.
"We choose each other and build a future we are both excited about." The relationship.

The second gives the work somewhere to go after the proposal. Put it in your order notes, along with the names and birth details for both of you if you have them.

For more on love work, read the love spells guide and the attraction spells guide.

Questions people also ask

Do commitment spells work?

A commitment spell focuses on loyalty, devotion and the step toward a shared future. People usually notice warmth and contact first, and a commitment step later if it comes.

What is the difference between a love spell and an obsession spell?

An obsession or seduction spell works on desire and attention. A love or commitment spell works on devotion and staying together. Choose by the outcome you want.

How long does a proposal spell take?

There is no fixed timetable. Look for steps toward the future first, such as conversations about plans, then judge at a set point you choose.

What should I write for a commitment spell?

Write the relationship you want, not just the moment. Include both names and birth details if you have them.

How do you break an obsession spell?

Say plainly that the working is ended, take apart anything you made and remove the remains from your home the next morning. If I cast it, message me with your order reference.